I drive a hell of a lot on dirt roads, I was raised in the bush and learnt to drive on dirt roads. Regardless of dirt roads or black top I have a starting pressure of 28 pound front and rear. When loaded I may increase the front to 30 pounds and rear to 32 pounds.
I cant remember when I last got a flat tyre, and my tyre wear is even across the surface of both front and rear tyres and when checking the tyres for heat they are never hot to touch.
Too many people play with their tyre pressures when on dirt roads trying to get a smooth ride across corrugations, instead of pulling the thing into high four wheel drive and getting up to a speed that allows the vehicle to sit on top of the corrugations.
By driving dirt roads in high four you get safer drive-ability, better grip on the road surface, even tyre wear and can maintain a speed that allows for a smoother ride.
Don't mock it, next time your are on a dirt road and half way through a corner, reach down and pull the thing into high four, you will be amazed at the difference. As for diff wear , it does not hurt anything as there is always enough slippage to allow for the diff's. Why do you think manufactures are producing constant four wheel drives ?
cheers and safe travels, duggie