Hi Evo
We do not believe in ever losing people, as in our way, if you remember someone, and think of them as well as talk about them fondly, they are not lost, simply gone to their next existence. We are a spiritual, not religious, people, and believe that the spirit goes to join their Ancestors.
It is still a very sad thing for someone to lose this life in such a way.....our thoughts are with you.
Regards
Tjupurula