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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #25 on: November 05, 2011, 12:44:38 PM »
Maybe I shouldn't have even bought it up in hindsight.

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If you feel that strongly about it post it.
If nothing it shows that at least one person on here cares for others.
But I think you will find (as has been mentioned) that spats among the members will happen from time to time.
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #26 on: November 05, 2011, 12:51:15 PM »


I guess my point was that I just didn't want it to get to a point where you went to a myswag camp and had to be careful what you said.

 

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #27 on: November 05, 2011, 12:54:51 PM »
Can we have more google image banter now?  ;D

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #28 on: November 05, 2011, 01:12:07 PM »
Glenyse,

I started a similar thread a few years ago in the forum feedback section when a few things were changing with regard to the personality, direction and size of the forum (this thread has since recently been deleted, but not before it ran its' course).  It highlighted a lot of what people were thinking at the time including myself, and as Snow put it, aired a bit of dirty laundry and gave the admin and mods a bit of feedback as well.

If there were more Myswag get togethers organised, where people could attend and put a real personality to a username instead of a perceived cyber image which you get over the net, I think the angst might be reduced.  A lot of the time people get the wrong impressions of people only because of a misconceived idea of their ideas brought on by a poor wording in a post.

I always find that I can understand the direction of thought of most peoples posts better if I have spend a bit of time with them at a meet or around a campfire.

It's much easier to disregard the feelings of a person who you have not met, than those of who you have, and post accordingly.

I'm not always very good at selecting the right words to express what I'm thinking, nor am I good at restraining what I'm thinking, with a bit of a "say it as you see it" approach, and I have no doubt this comes across in my posts as a bad trait quite regularly.

I've always enjoyed the company of the Myswag members I have met, have also enjoyed organising a meet or two, and most of all love contributing to the information, both technical and travel wise on the forum threads, and hope to continue doing so well into the future.  
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #29 on: November 05, 2011, 01:15:24 PM »
If there were more Myswag get togethers organised, where people could attend and put a real personality to a username instead of a perceived cyber image which you get over the net, I think the angst might be reduced.  A lot of the time people get the wrong impressions of people only because of a misconceived idea of their ideas brought on by a poor wording in a post.

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #30 on: November 05, 2011, 01:19:52 PM »
 A lot of the time people get the wrong impressions of people only because of a misconceived idea of their ideas brought on by a poor wording in a post.



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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #31 on: November 05, 2011, 01:32:59 PM »
x2 I've met you and you're still a grumpy old man ;D

The main thing is that you have met me (and a good effort that was to), and now you know to treat my grumpiness accordingly.

D4D, you are nothing like the person your online persona conjures up, but rather you are an easy going, genuine person, with a heart of gold.

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #32 on: November 05, 2011, 01:36:29 PM »
D4D, you are nothing like the person your online persona conjures up, but rather you are an easy going, genuine person, with a heart of gold.


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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #33 on: November 05, 2011, 01:40:00 PM »
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A lot of the time people get the wrong impressions of people only because of a misconceived idea of their ideas brought on by a poor wording in a post.

I always find that I can understand the direction of thought of most peoples posts better if I have spend a bit of time with them at a meet or around a campfire.


It's not easy to words things in a way that doesn't offend anyone and I don't expect happy families all the time - in fact that would be pretty boring.

Although we've been members for just over 12 months (not long in the scheme of things), we've only managed to attend one myswag camp due to Scott's roster. I agree you get a better handle on people's personalities when you get to know them personally rather than on here so we're looking forward to meeting a lot more of you before too long.

I am definitely not judging anyone here  :D  I just thought a few threads were not in the usually light hearted character of the forum and I wondered if it was just me or if others were concerned about the direction they had taken.

Anyway I got it off my chest so all good now.

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #34 on: November 05, 2011, 01:55:05 PM »
Oh my gawd, D4D and Gunna Do have gay'd up this thread.


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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #35 on: November 05, 2011, 01:56:25 PM »
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #36 on: November 05, 2011, 01:57:20 PM »
I've learnt so much from the other Stalwarts. ;D ;D

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« Reply #37 on: November 05, 2011, 01:58:36 PM »
I was going to keep out of this, but I've had time to have a "think" over lunch. So here's my take on the last few weeks. NB: It is not aimed at anyone, just a simple view of things OK? Good  :cheers:
I reckon what we have is a good old fashion dose of Cyber Gastro. It works just like the real thing, but online. Stay with me here, I'll explain the theory. Just like regular gastro, a bug gets in the guts & before long some(any) one comes down with the $hits. As it happens , a few people hangin' around also get infected & next thing you know everyone is spittin' & $hittin' over nuthin'. Follow? OK. Then , just like real life, after all have had a good clean out things settle back down again. You still get a bit twitchy about certain "foods"(threads) but in a short time all is recovered & life goes on. You know there is a risk that if you "eat " the same "food" a relapse may occur, but you "eat" just the same 'coz you like the"resteraunt". If all else fails, a Bex powder & a good lay down may be required.
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #38 on: November 05, 2011, 02:00:29 PM »
I must admit, I didn't like D4D much before I met him.

Now that I've met him, I like him less.


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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #39 on: November 05, 2011, 02:01:59 PM »
I feel much better now thanks doctor Bullfrog.  I hope you don't croak. ;D
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #40 on: November 05, 2011, 02:03:34 PM »
I was going to keep out of this, but I've had time to have a "think" over lunch. So here's my take on the last few weeks. NB: It is not aimed at anyone, just a simple view of things OK? Good  :cheers:
I reckon what we have is a good old fashion dose of Cyber Gastro. It works just like the real thing, but online. Stay with me here, I'll explain the theory. Just like regular gastro, a bug gets in the guts & before long some(any) one comes down with the $hits. As it happens , a few people hangin' around also get infected & next thing you know everyone is spittin' & $hittin' over nuthin'. Follow? OK. Then , just like real life, after all have had a good clean out things settle back down again. You still get a bit twitchy about certain "foods"(threads) but in a short time all is recovered & life goes on. You know there is a risk that if you "eat " the same "food" a relapse may occur, but you "eat" just the same 'coz you like the"resteraunt". If all else fails, a Bex powder & a good lay down may be required.
 :cheers: Dr Frog ;D

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #41 on: November 05, 2011, 02:04:29 PM »

If there were more Myswag get togethers organised, where people could attend and put a real personality to a username instead of a perceived cyber image which you get over the net, I think the angst might be reduced.  A lot of the time people get the wrong impressions of people only because of a misconceived idea of their ideas brought on by a poor wording in a post.

I always find that I can understand the direction of thought of most peoples posts better if I have spend a bit of time with them at a meet or around a campfire.

It's much easier to disregard the feelings of a person who you have not met, than those of who you have, and post accordingly.

I'm not always very good at selecting the right words to express what I'm thinking, nor am I good at restraining what I'm thinking, with a bit of a "say it as you see it" approach, and I have no doubt this comes across in my posts as a bad trait quite regularly.

I've always enjoyed the company of the Myswag members I have met, have also enjoyed organising a meet or two, and most of all love contributing to the information, both technical and travel wise on the forum threads, and hope to continue doing so well into the future.  
 

I'm another who often has trouble finding the right words to express my thoughts, Often this happens in person too. Another thing is a voice has inflection and tone, These are not portrayed over the internet' So it's easier to get the wrong idea of the intention of the poster.
There have also been some contentious threads lately (I wont mention QANTAS) that will, Along with politics and religion, Polarize people to one side or the other. In my opinion the mods have done well with these threads, But when they degenerate into a slanging match or personal insults they have to step in.


I agree. It's getting old fast.

I used to really enjoy logging in. Not so much lately.

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #42 on: November 05, 2011, 02:07:47 PM »
I must admit, I didn't like D4D much before I met him.

Now that I've met him, I like him less.



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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #43 on: November 05, 2011, 02:08:15 PM »
Dr Frog,

I took a bex and had a good lie down. Will this cure me????

Banter is great, but with a forum you can't get a tone or feel across (except with some of Dans pictures occasionally!!!! wot the?)
We all read it wrong sometimes or misinterpret. So What?
If I don't like the thread I stop reading it.
Lets face it a heated 6 B&S dc to dc thread 6 months ago would have involved lots of ranting and a call from the fire brigade.
Now we all laugh about it.

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Roll on more banter, tips and those absolutely fantastic photos..............
Keeps me sane in the trudgery of working life......Now roll on early retirement so I can be one of those cantackerous cranky be$tards putting up photos of where I've been and teasing all the poor people who have to work for a living!!!!!!

I'll raise my temporary myswag flag - you know the one with a picture of a jayco in the corner and the southern cross in the middle, and raise my glass at the same time. I'll then christen the campfire as I light it, in honour of our saving grace the carbon tax!!! >:D :-* >:D

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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #44 on: November 05, 2011, 02:15:21 PM »
Glenyse - Only fire side consultations are available until 17/8 2016 ( booked out sorry ;D) the upside is fire side therapy is a free service of www. quackfrog.com.au/pizzedagain. There might be a time slot free at the Trout Bash..... :cheers:
Brian- The Bex powder has to be washed down with a few  :cheers: to realise the full effect. :cheers:
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #45 on: November 05, 2011, 02:17:11 PM »
Bullfrog at work:



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« Reply #46 on: November 05, 2011, 02:18:25 PM »
I'll pay that Dan  :cup: Worth a cold can for sure  :cheers:
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #47 on: November 05, 2011, 02:19:16 PM »
When he's not on myswag:


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« Reply #48 on: November 05, 2011, 02:21:35 PM »
Sorry Dan, that post belongs in the Camp Oven/ Cooking section. That's definately a "toad in the hole" ;D ;D :cheers:
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Re: comon kids.. why all the bickering?
« Reply #49 on: November 05, 2011, 02:22:28 PM »
The good doctor, checking tonsils: (or looking for that timtam he lost)