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Re: Falling down
« Reply #25 on: September 30, 2015, 07:50:28 PM »
I think getting away and maybe chatting to some people not connected with your situation may help you. Then as loanrangie said it might be time for that long chat with your missus. Otherwise it will probably just get worse without some stress release for you. Take care of yourself. I'm sure the Vic crew will be helpful now you have been open about the hard issues you have been facing.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #26 on: September 30, 2015, 07:52:57 PM »
Quote from: dales133 on September 30, 2015, 07:44:04 PM
I ended up with diabetes this year just to top things off so I shouldn't realy drink.
As a rule I don't much any more but the last few weeks ive bent the rules.

Be good to take off without telling her for a few days and make her think about her priorities maybe.
I nearly got a hotel tonight but didn't want to waste money

Seriously get up to Maldon, we are all a bunch of stirrers but are all good people and we always look after myswaggers

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #27 on: September 30, 2015, 08:01:22 PM »
Don't have alot in the way of camping gear but can crash in the back of frank the tanks cousin.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #28 on: September 30, 2015, 08:04:58 PM »
Quote from: dales133 on September 30, 2015, 08:01:22 PM
Don't have alot in the way of camping gear but can crash in the back of frank the tanks cousin.

You won't need it, my mate scarps has all the camp gear you will ever need, and he is more then happy to give up the trackie for you.  No no don't thank me, the least I can do.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #29 on: September 30, 2015, 08:07:55 PM »
Quote from: dales133 on September 30, 2015, 08:01:22 PM
Don't have alot in the way of camping gear but can crash in the back of frank the tanks cousin.

Mate, just get on down there with what you can. Just bring some food & drink, there is plenty of fridges you can use and we all have heaps of cooking gear

Swannie

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #30 on: September 30, 2015, 08:08:52 PM »
Come up mate and have a chat l have been through the same poo and all has worked out ok
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #31 on: September 30, 2015, 08:13:50 PM »
Quote from: swannie on September 30, 2015, 07:52:57 PM
Seriously get up to Maldon, we are all a bunch of stirrers but are all good people and we always look after myswaggers

Swannie

Agree, have not met anyone I would not invite around for a coffee, well maybe 1 who made a mess on their way back from another myswag overnighter !!!
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #32 on: September 30, 2015, 08:16:22 PM »
I was reluctant at first because im not in the most socialising mood at the moment but i feel welcome now and understood where i didnt before. I apologise if i was short with people (geof) but wasnt in a user friendly frame of mind.
Ill talk to igor and shane about organising getting his camper back and I recon I might for a night at least.
How far is it again from geelong?
What nights are the first there and the last leaving... I know I could go back and read the thread but id rather not.
Thanks again... my moods improved emensly even though I'm getting the silent treatment for sticking up for myself
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #33 on: September 30, 2015, 08:23:01 PM »
Quote from: dales133 on September 30, 2015, 08:16:22 PM
I was reluctant at first because im not in the most socialising mood at the moment but i feel welcome now and understood where i didnt before. I apologise if i was short with people (geof) but wasnt in a user friendly frame of mind.
Ill talk to igor and shane about organising getting his camper back and I recon I might for a night at least.
How far is it again from geelong?
What nights are the first there and the last leaving... I know I could go back and read the thread but id rather not.
Thanks again... my moods improved emensly even though I'm getting the silent treatment for sticking up for myself
Were rocking up tomorrow lunchtime and staying till Sunday.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #34 on: September 30, 2015, 08:24:21 PM »
Geelong to Maldon will be 2 hrs, Thursday to Sunday
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #35 on: September 30, 2015, 08:24:48 PM »
Quote from: peter01 on September 30, 2015, 08:13:50 PM

Agree, have not met anyone I would not invite around for a coffee, well maybe 1 who made a mess on their way back from another myswag overnighter !!!
Made a mess is an understatement. Destroyed the floor more like it. And to think he calls himself Good Scott. Pfftt
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #36 on: September 30, 2015, 08:27:25 PM »
Thanks so.
I'm working tomorrow then hopefuly picking igors camper up Friday morning then I was going to work on mine for the rest of the day and weekend but I might change plans.
Is there any joint food plans I'm a pretty good cook... could bring something in the ecopot. 
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #37 on: September 30, 2015, 08:29:31 PM »
Some will be there tomorrow. Some are staying until Monday. Friday-Sunday most will be there.

Geelong-Anakie-Ballan-Daylesford-Castlemaine-Maldon. It's quite a nice drive.

If you can get yourself there Dale, I'm sure you'll be pleased you made the effort.

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #38 on: September 30, 2015, 09:05:32 PM »
Would love to see you mate, and more than happy to have you park the new 'ice burg' next to the Heaslip.  Lots of space in the kitchen too.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #39 on: September 30, 2015, 10:23:27 PM »
Do yourself a favor Dales, take a break and go up to Maldon you will have a ball, l'm not the most social guy around but always enjoy the swagger get togethers, I would be there but for work. With your knowledge you will have some long conversations with a lot of like minded people, one of them being geoffa . One word of advice tho, keep an eye on that sji and hutchie when they get together they are up to no good but your gut will ache from laughing


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Re: Falling down
« Reply #40 on: September 30, 2015, 10:37:28 PM »
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #41 on: September 30, 2015, 10:48:48 PM »
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...but her priorities are wrong and her heads up her arse when it comes to her kids
Its pretty ordinary to put Shit on me then make me go to a place where shed assassinated my character.


She sounds like she has you right where she wants you...

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #42 on: October 01, 2015, 05:01:33 AM »
There you go Dales, the MySwag family will cheer you up and you'll have a great weekend.
Probably what you need right now and i'm sure you will return back home with a positive
and fresh frame of mind.

Cheers  :cheers:

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #43 on: October 01, 2015, 05:19:39 AM »
Great work guys. :cup:
Have a great time at Maldon dales133. ;D
I'm sure you will with friends like these Swaggers. :cup: :cup:

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #44 on: October 01, 2015, 08:29:39 AM »
Sniff sniff.
Now I'm starting to feel left out. All this "love" going about...

WHAT ABOUT MEEEEEEEE.

Oh that's right i live in Darwin and loving it..

Enjoy Dale. Sounds like your going to have a ball.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #45 on: October 01, 2015, 09:00:45 AM »
Sounds really dysfunctional mate.

I think i will side with Bird on this one... you need to walk away.

2 things here worry me, as they happened to me: your partner tries to create fights and arguments out of nothing & your partner bags you out to other people. In my experience she is trying to make you leave..
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #46 on: October 01, 2015, 09:02:50 AM »
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2 things here worry me, as they happened to me: your partner tries to create fights and arguments out of nothing & your partner bags you out to other people. In my experience she is trying to make you leave..

x eleventytwelve...

1 question: does she have an income?? or are you her life support system there?
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #47 on: October 01, 2015, 09:07:49 AM »
Quote from: Goose on October 01, 2015, 09:00:45 AM
Sounds really dysfunctional mate.

I think i will side with Bird on this one... you need to walk away.

2 things here worry me, as they happened to me: your partner tries to create fights and arguments out of nothing & your partner bags you out to other people. In my experience she is trying to make you leave..
Alternatively, can be a sign of depression, or a cyclical thing.  They can be strange critters, you are the one who knows her and your relationship best.
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Re: Falling down
« Reply #48 on: October 01, 2015, 10:01:15 AM »
You mentioned about skipping away without telling her, perhaps have a think about letting her know you're going camping for a night or two... But as B&B said, you know your situation best.

Either way, have a good weekend and don't forget to breathe in the fresh air.

All the best,

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Re: Falling down
« Reply #49 on: October 01, 2015, 01:26:26 PM »
Tell her your going for the weekend mate because you need too. I don't think anything good can come from just disappearing?  You'll have a ball and when ur back in a better frame of mind find a councillor and seek her to join you. From there it's up to both of you.

 Do it sooner rather than latter dale or it will chew you up.

.....besides the rugby WC finals will be on Soon  and you kiwis usually always get depressed after that, unless it's played at home.  ;D
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