Hey Onion welcome to the forum. I can give you a beauty of a tip, "forget" to pack the tent for a trip and I will guarantee your wife will be convinced. Worked for me, the down side is she won't let you, or anyone else that will listen, forget it in a hurry.
We started at the cheap end of the market 5yrs ago and have been, seen and done heaps. More than we ever would have with the tent arrangement. We are now in the process of upgrading we have enjoyed it so much.
Lemo.