Some great suggestions, now she's making a list of alternatives. I have to say the Exodus 11 is perfect for what we want and how we camp. I just can't get past paying close to what I paid for my first house....
The Vista RV also looks like it might be OK, seems a few like those, although the annexe is sail track and needs poles as well as the shower tent.... We are over poles and tentes and having to set up and pack up, but we don't want a big heavy caravan either.