Ok, I need some counselling
there exists a particular brand of camper that I really really like, they are very hard to find second hand, infact only seen a few over the last 2 years, so one has come up but we agreed not to buy another camper for 1.5 years until the eldest finished school (he is grade 11 this year).
So our plan was to buy next winter 2015 and then head off for 6 mths in 2016 with the youngest out of school with us and the eldest

work/military/living it up in my house LOL
So then a good myswagg buddy of mine sends me a link and I should not have opened it, so its exactly what we want even has the same wheels as our car.. I call the guy he says sorry mate a family friend has said he wants it so i have towed it down south for him.
Oh ok I say thats that I can move on and we discuss "we said we will wait ect ect" all good ..
THEN ...he calls me back and says the other guy pulled out and he can tow it back up here on the 17/18 feb for me to inspect.
Now I am really in a heart Vs mind tussle.
I know if I let this go in 18mths we wont find one when want one, but the $$$ are a big deal. and would require a re-draw on my home (something I have never done in my life). In 18mths I could pay cash.
I know i need to grab it... just need some good old fashion myswag therapy ..in fact feel better already..
thanks for listening myswag.
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