the real lesson that I'm taking out of this is how proud I am of my resilient family
.... even miss 16 coped fairly well..not to much complaining really...

Reminds me of the time friends driving from Darwin to Adelaide broke down near Daly Waters, and were waiting in the heat for the AANT - their vehicle for the benefit of me Country Cuz from Bright was a Disco!
Any how, mum & dad in the front, two teenagers in the back, and dad says, "ahhh kids, there's something I've gotta tell you. Before I met yer mum I had a girlfriend you see, and ahh well, she had a baby, and ahh well while we're in Adelaide you'll be meeting your sister and her kids".
Kids in the back were speechless, as they knew nothing of dad's sordid past, until master 16 says "how did that happen?"
Dad replied, "I didn't wear a condom"!
Sorry for the thread drift.