Just change the game...........
Go from mummies and daddies to married couple with kids.
Then you don't have to worry about it
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Unless of course you've gone and done something stupid, like buying her 50 shades of grey....
Now you'll get no peace.
By the way, we have a hawk and its not a problem. Just make sure the kids are asleep.
I did however, put a large plate of sheet steel across where the mount sits attached to the underside of the bed.
Not for any activities, I was just worried about the kids playing, jumping or moving about at night and having a metal spike come through the flimsy ply..............
Stable as. Safe, secure and really strong.
Cheers and good luck
Brian