Well i joined another forum, a new one in town, but,,, it only lasted one night, as my intro was not good enough, most people on the forum know who i am, but seems i never icluded all my medical, bank details, family history, police records etc. so the Admin decided i should have my intro deleted, and he did just that.
So i thought bugger that, will not bother re-introducing myself'
now i understand why people dont like the guy.. thanks for nothing %#$&
anyway i feel better now,,