I was hooking up the camper and going away, but I've just put mum into respite again and have to look for a place for permanent care. So now according to the wife I'm visiting the Mother in law, the tip, the shops and visiting Mum.
Edit:Cruisindub I just read your post, I'm in the opposite position. Mum needs to go into care but doesn't want to, well didn't want to till last weekend, now she knows she has to for her own safety. The family cr@p is not fun though,and I feel for you through that. I hope despite all that you can have a good easter.