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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #25 on: December 23, 2011, 09:38:44 PM »
I would agree, the world is perceived to be worse now than when I was a kid, but the fact is we had pedophiles and rapists back then, either the act was not reported because of the shame, or no one believed  the claim that it had happened at all.

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« Reply #26 on: December 24, 2011, 04:51:33 AM »
point I was trying to make with my previous post, things still happened, things still do, nothing has changed except our awareness of these things.

In Roseberry where I grew up we played tree tiggy, average height about 30 foot of the ground, jump from one tree to the next so you didnt get caught, you fell you were it or off to the hospital.  Many a rock fight with the best throw I ever did coming from a situation where I was ambushed whilst riding my bike, rock went whizzing past my head, dropped the bike rolled came up with a rock returned fire, direct hit.  Result he had stitches I got a kick from his big brother and a belting from my old man.  All was fair in love and war and we remained great mates.

but most of what we claim didnt do damage still killed people, it is just that we now are more aware of risk.
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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #27 on: December 24, 2011, 06:10:47 AM »
Ah the good old days... Did it all !!!

Thinking back what we did was great we adapted , created games , watching color tv for the first time , would ride your bike for miles , (what helmets ) , surf , long hair , chasing girls , getting your license and then loosing it, decking out your first panel van, drive ins , having your girlfriend sit next to you with her hand on your lap  ( good old bench seats) could go on for ever !!!

How things change over the years as working in an electrical retail store for 25 years you see how technology was changing from the first cd player, Walkmans, DVD players  now to  where we are.

The only regret was not foreseeing the growth in technology and investing and making millions.

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« Reply #28 on: December 24, 2011, 06:35:47 AM »
Being a 50's kid did all that and more, remember making bows and arrows out of willow trees and firing at each other.
And no I didn't have to walk 10k's to school through the snow without shoes, but I did have to walk 3 miles to school in hand me down shoes no matter what the weather was, rain, hail or heat. I grew up in Hobart and it doesn't snow that often but it did get very cold.
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« Reply #29 on: December 24, 2011, 08:05:59 AM »
I was born in 82 and used to do most of that stuff as well. The thing is I am not even 30 yet and I already miss what we used to be able to do and it sadens me that my kids will probably never know that freedom. Technology, cool?  yes, for the better? I don't think so. When we were young we never had portable games or in car DVDs and my folks used to take us on month long holidays all over Australia where we would drive all day, set up camp, get up in the morning pack up and back in the car all day again. Guess what? We didn't die. We did fun stuffs like eye spy, making up names for each passing cars numberplate letters and 'shock horror' our mum would even read out loud entire books to us. My point is that a great generational lifestyle has been all but lost and while we can try to blame the generation before us, modern politically correct society and ever invading technology has made it very hard for our parents to acctually raise us the way they want to.
    We need to bring back the curriculum of the 50's. Give our coppers back the dignety and power to do their jobs and smash the crime so that we can all feel safer about letting our kids have a life outside their 6ft high yard fences. While we're at it lets stop suing everyone for looking sideways at us, and let our kids learn from there own mistakes. I'll stop rambling now but this subject  gets me fired up as this technological world is undoubtedly worse now than in our grandparents day.

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« Reply #30 on: December 24, 2011, 08:27:04 AM »
Our grandparents probably said the same thing about the wireless and then black and white TV. Reality is technology is here to stay and it is only going to get more pervasive. When I hear old folk whine about technology I remind them they're living longer due to health technology advancements and better diagnosis of ailments. As a parent the trick is moderation. I can see my son (1 yr) enjoys Mickey Mouse and Hi-5 so he gets to watch them, we also go for walks to the park and get outside.
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« Reply #31 on: December 24, 2011, 08:50:05 AM »
I used ride a motorbike with no motor or brakes. ;D Would push it up all the hills and jump on and ridr it almost all the way back home, twas a good time. Had a go-kart with cast iron wheels from one of those push mowers without the engine and
was noisy as hell on the asphalt but was good for doing power slides and sparking up in the dark.  8)

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« Reply #32 on: December 24, 2011, 08:59:36 AM »
Yes technology can keep us alive longer nowadays, albiet with not much quality of life in lots of cases. Due to all the crap that is put in our foods, bodycare and cleaning products and the ever increasingly bad air quality in cities we are killing ourselves. So called advancements in technology have done us such harm that we have to have more technology to cure us from our lifestyles. Our grandparents lived healthier lives because they ate proper food without preservatives in it and they had active lifestyles because of all the freedom they had to run amok as kids. Look back at your grandparents photo albums. See many fat kids? You can't tell me that our modern way of life (TV,Xbox,computers,etc) has not had a major impact on our generations health. I know the world is heading down the ever increasing technology path whether we like it or not, but I am saying I don't believe we are the better for it.

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« Reply #33 on: December 24, 2011, 09:10:34 AM »
Sorry for getting a little sidetracked. When my best mate and I were 9 or 10, we used to get up at 3am and ride our bmx's 25km to the burdekin river near Charters Towers, spend the day swimming, shooting crows with shanghai's and exploring and generally having a lot of fun. Then we would ride home again at dusk. We had the police pull us over about halfway there once because someone had reported 2 kids running away from home, we told them what we were up to and they had a laugh and let us go about our fun. Ah the good old day's (listen to me, I sound like an 80 year old).

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« Reply #34 on: December 24, 2011, 09:29:12 AM »
Gee Wes you're a glass is half empty type of guy.
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« Reply #35 on: December 24, 2011, 11:00:03 AM »
Gee Wes you're a glass is half empty type of guy.

D4D, I'm actually a glass is overflowing type. If I ever get my camper finished I'd love to get along to a Myswag outing to meet a lot of people on here and have some of these discussion's around a campfire. As much as I sound like a whinger, I always smile and make the most of life.

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« Reply #36 on: December 24, 2011, 01:47:52 PM »
Here is a link to a relevant page on the ABS website.
http://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/abs@.nsf/Previousproducts/1301.0Feature%20Article152006?opendocument&tabname=Summary&prodno=1301.0&issue=2006&num=&view=

might be a bit of an eye opener, for those who think things used to be so much better in the good old days!

infact, the OP's title might be very relevant, we had to be brave to survive in those days!

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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #37 on: December 28, 2011, 08:21:52 AM »
Funny thread. Young people are different these days, but im certain our parents and grandparents said the same about my generation.

The big difference I find is lack of respect. I have tried to teach my kids respect, with varying degree's of success.

My dad taught me respect the old fashioned way! Cant do that now.
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« Reply #38 on: December 28, 2011, 09:16:14 AM »
Here is a link to a relevant page on the ABS website.
http://www.abs.gov.au/ausstats/abs@.nsf/Previousproducts/1301.0Feature%20Article152006?opendocument&tabname=Summary&prodno=1301.0&issue=2006&num=&view=

might be a bit of an eye opener, for those who think things used to be so much better in the good old days!

infact, the OP's title might be very relevant, we had to be brave to survive in those days!

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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #39 on: December 28, 2011, 09:20:12 AM »
Funny thread. Young people are different these days, but im certain our parents and grandparents said the same about my generation.

The big difference I find is lack of respect. I have tried to teach my kids respect, with varying degree's of success.

My dad taught me respect the old fashioned way! Cant do that now.

Does corporal punishment instil respect or fear?   There's a difference.
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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #40 on: December 28, 2011, 10:09:27 AM »
How things have changed,
Started my working life at the age of 13, weren't allowed to be a Paperboy until you were in High School, had to wait until one of the older boys left. My name had been on the list from half way through year 6.
All the way through High School, 79-82, I was up at 3.30am,ride to the back of the News Agent, roll over a 120 papers, deliver them, and God help us if you didn't put the paper where the customer wanted. Get home, shower, have breakfast, walk to the bus stop, &.30am bus from Ballina to Lismore. Get home at 4.30pm, change and ride out to the racetrack, clean stables, home at 6.30pm.
On the weekends, my mates and myself would ride our pushies anywhere from Lennox Head to South Ballina Beach and even up to Dowlard Falls, up on the Alstonville Plateau, Wardel to Alstonville rd.
We'd take cardboard with us if we went to Lennox Head and ride the cardboard down the hill at the point.
Be fore I left High School, instead of riding all the way around to south wall to go for a surf, we use paddle across the bar. We would watch the tide, take note of the time and either walk up river or out along the north wall so the tide would have you end up at the right place on the other side so you didn't have a long walk before a surf, and the same on the return trip. Now it is breaking the law to do it, because a few idiots have picked the tide wrong and have ended up being rescued. Even if the waves were the best you'd seen for weeks, we always sit there and studied the rips and the flow of water before jumping in.
Another thing we use to do after we got our car licenses, we would travel to Casino for a night at Cougars, on the way home at 3 am, on a bright full moon, you could drive nearly all the way back to Lismore if the moon was full without a cloud in the sky with your headlights off, listening to Pink Floyd on the stereo, casette of cause, it was very rare you would see another car coming the other way, I doubt that you would go a couple of k's these day without meeting car or truck.

I don't know, It's a different world kids live in these days.
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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #41 on: December 28, 2011, 10:13:29 AM »
Does corporal punishment instil respect or fear?   There's a difference.

Definitely fear actually. But with fear came respect. My dad was not a violent man as such but had no problems smacking us kids, if that's violence in that context then its a sad world. I don't think it was the smack that instilled respect so much, more so his look of anger and disappointment that put the fear into us!
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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #42 on: December 28, 2011, 11:12:03 AM »
What the hell, Charles Darwin was onto something I reckon.

Take all the warning labels off things and let nature decide.
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Re: Tell your kids how Brave you were ....
« Reply #43 on: December 28, 2011, 01:42:14 PM »
Funny thread. Young people are different these days, but im certain our parents and grandparents said the same about my generation.

The big difference I find is lack of respect. I have tried to teach my kids respect, with varying degree's of success.

My dad taught me respect the old fashioned way! Cant do that now.

I know my parents & grandparents said it about us

Also agree re: the lack of respect. Worked at the local high school for a while, & don't know how the teachers kept themselves in check with the atrocious behaviour coming from the majority of the so-called "young adults". I was appalled, & took a lot of effort on my part to bite my tongue every day  >:(

I was at school when the cane was abolished. Those kids who were afraid of getting a few whacks, seemed to change into demons overnight. Nothing wrong with a bit of fear tactic to keep behaviour in check...when applied properly!
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« Reply #44 on: December 28, 2011, 05:05:23 PM »
Does corporal punishment instil respect or fear?   There's a difference.
nothing breeds  respect like a good healthy dose of fear!!!!

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« Reply #45 on: December 28, 2011, 05:30:01 PM »
4 days in the bush with no video games ,computers or mb phones just 3 very dirty and exhausted boys equals my idea of paradise and hopefully some great childhood memories!!!

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« Reply #46 on: December 28, 2011, 05:52:25 PM »
nothing breeds  respect like a good healthy dose of fear!!!!


No it doesn't.  Want proof? - http://www.abc.net.au/7.30/content/2011/s3391221.htm
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« Reply #47 on: December 28, 2011, 05:52:25 PM »
4 days in the bush with no video games ,computers or mb phones just 3 very dirty and exhausted boys equals my idea of paradise and hopefully some great childhood memories!!!

Can't argue with that :)
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« Reply #49 on: December 28, 2011, 06:30:45 PM »
No it doesn't.  Want proof? - http://www.abc.net.au/7.30/content/2011/s3391221.htm
Think you,ve taken it out of context.The fear of Dad getting angry is different to the fear of being abused. ;D

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