Never ever forget, our armed forces serve us. They have (in the history of our country) served us faithfully, honestly and diligently.
Don't merely mourn those who gave their lives for us, celebrate their existence for without them we may not be who we are today. What we owe them is to be the best 'we' that we can be.
I've served and will forever support those who who have served, those who now serve, and those who will serve in the future to the very best of my ability.