Never judge a book by it's cover. I met Darren last weekend and I can say it's not so much charm but more charisma. It is a huge loss that he is not posting at the moment but he is still lerking the myswag pages. Lovely bloke and lovely family. I dare say he will add a post here and there when required but I think the days of him being a participating member are gone. It is a shame but life takes funny road for all of us in different ways.