To answer some of the questions:
- Likely going to keep it for at least 8 years.
- Wife will need to drive it occasionally, but it will mostly be me. I'm comfortable driving anything, and am licensed for anything from a motorbike to a semi
- Kids will likely grow to be 5'10-6' and heavy around the middle, if they are anything like their dad
But given they are currently 6 & 9, they don't take up that much room yet.
- Novated lease is right out, due to my current employer only having 3 employees and not being willing to handle the additional admin required for the lease. The commodore was on a CHP, but to do the same for a 4WD I need to buy less than 3 years old, which puts the cost higher than I'm willing to go for a 2nd vehicle, or would force me to buy something like a Kia or Holden :p
- I will be averaging ~15-20,000kms per year in the vehicle, so fuel costs will need to be a consideration.
I'm aware of the exploding Nissan 3L diesels, but my understanding is that was resolved by 2003, and is no longer an issue if well maintained. Given my VE needs a timing chain replacement (after 64000kms) at a $2500 cost, I'm aware that even the most reliable of engines can still produce a lemon.
Sounds like I need to take another look at the Prados.
The auctions might be a good idea, but make me very nervous as it seems all too easy to buy someone else's problem with no recourse, and no real opportunity to do any detailed inspection ahead of time.