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General => General Discussion => Topic started by: scarpsD40 on November 29, 2014, 06:29:06 AM
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So it's that time of year again when us guys always struggle to hit the spot with that well thought, researched, valued gift for the better half.
Well seriously, what do you get for a lady when she clearly already has the perfect gift that is witty, charming, romantic, and thoughtful.
Ideas please?
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What about a day/weekend for 2 at one of those spa/massage joints?
She could take one of her girlfriends.....
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Give her a voucher for a hour of Scarps loving.
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Give her a voucher for a hour of Scarps loving.
.....but what would she do with the other 55 minutes?.....
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I'm gunna buy her a new winch :cheers: 8)
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I'm gunna buy her a new winch :cheers: 8)
Just what she needs....
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Here ya go Merry christmas send darling wifey up on the aerobatic flight, dont forget the video option so ya can relive the screams of enjoyment and narrative of thanks over and over .http://www.jetfighter.com.au/ (http://www.jetfighter.com.au/)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXna2jyamd4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXna2jyamd4)
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Get her a shake weight :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x539xV6HOso (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x539xV6HOso)
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Not sure for her birthday I got her a $100 voucher and "supercheap"
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Found this. Might be ok.
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buy her a new vacuum or ironing board to make life easier
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I bought Kerry a new Hema 7 for her birthday last week, and considering a new camper for her christmas present.
She'll probably get me some clothes or something...
I think she is lucky to have a considerate husband like me to get her the best presents.... :angel: :angel:
MarkVS
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Discovered today that a new camera for her might be the go.
Or so it was intimidated.
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Hoping to get her a new ( to us ) adventure off-road camper. Can't think of anything more romantic than being able to spend more time away together :-D
I'm pretty sure that it's what she wants more than anything else.....
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I bought Mrs McT a Waeco Fridge stand for Christmas last year ;D
Then we just 'laughed'and 'laughed' ?? NOT !!!
Still haven't lived it down - I've been reminded of this continually all year. So I'm also looking for good ideas from the guys who have learnt a thing or two...
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I bought Kerry a new Hema 7 for her birthday last week, and considering a new camper for her christmas present.
She'll probably get me some clothes or something...
I think she is lucky to have a considerate husband like me to get her the best presents.... :angel: :angel:
MarkVS
Ya better than me, we buy each other nothing for Xmas or birthdays or Valentine's.
Having said that, i was thinking of getting Astrid a 3 hour surfing lesson, but with the balance of a boiled egg, it may be a waste of money.
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I'm gunna buy her a new winch :cheers: 8)
lf she gets a winch she a Keeper ;D ;D ;D Good Looking & a 12000KG winch :cup: :cup: :cup: :cup: :cheers:
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Or, did spell check stuff up and you're really getting a 120 kilo wench. :D
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Not getting into that she knows where l live :-*
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Get her a shake weight :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x539xV6HOso (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x539xV6HOso)
I suppose it's better then a Weight Shake http://www.pharmaonline.com.au/biggest-loser-double-choc-pack.html?gclid=CI-Em9vyoMICFU9vvAod5moAdg (http://www.pharmaonline.com.au/biggest-loser-double-choc-pack.html?gclid=CI-Em9vyoMICFU9vvAod5moAdg) ;D ;D
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I think I'll get my misses a large box of Panadol to help with the headaches she seems to get at bed time :'(. If women are so good at multi tasking how come the cant have a headache and sex at the same time >:D ;D
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If you are serious about "hitting the spot", how about something in the plastic/metal line, battery operated and an option with a vibrating factor.
That's right, a new smart phone with silent mode, and she can video you getting out of bog holes, get the latest apps and leave you free for so she can get some "me time".
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2 x 6inch stacks for the ute with 1 not connected, and a 1.2inch exhaust going into one of them. go with 2x 10ft UHF antenna on the bullbar with spring bases so they smack the roof at 80 kph...
makes you more the man apparently
YMWV
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One year I got SWMBO an electric fence unit. Last year I made her some stuff for her horse gear. This year I was thinking a lift kit for her DMax but doubt that'll go down well!
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One year I got SWMBO an electric fence unit. Last year I made her some stuff for her horse gear. This year I was thinking a lift kit for her DMax but doubt that'll go down well!
how about a dustpan with her name engraved on it.. then next year you can get her the brush??
Copyright Andrew Dice Clay
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how about a dustpan with her name engraved on it.. then next year you can get her the brush??
Copyright Andrew Dice Clay
Dad found an axe head on the side of the road years ago and gave it to mum for Christmas. He told her he'd buy her the handle for her birthday! Probably lucky for him he never got the handle coz I know what mum would have tried to split with it!
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I gave the lovely one a nice pair of kitchen tongs one year....gift wrapped and all.
The look on her face was priceless.. :cup: :cup: :cup:
I then gave her something more like what she was expecting.
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One year I got SWMBO an electric fence unit. Last year I made her some stuff for her horse gear. This year I was thinking a lift kit for her DMax but doubt that'll go down well!
Both those were presents I loved, maybe next year can be the lift kit we will see.
Scarps don't know what to tell you to get but if she wants a camera get her a camera I love our canon takes great photos. Usually our presents end up being camper related lino6 has had Christmas or birthday presents of the engel, ozpig, the techniice fridge, I received the coleman hotwater system though that doesn't get much use since the ozpig.
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I gave the lovely one a nice pair of kitchen tongs one year....gift wrapped and all.
The look on her face was priceless.. :cup: :cup: :cup:
I then gave her something more like what she was expecting.
the matching bar-b-mate?
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2 x 6inch stacks for the ute with 1 not connected, and a 1.2inch exhaust going into one of them. go with 2x 10ft UHF antenna on the bullbar with spring bases so they smack the roof at 80 kph...
makes you more the man apparently
YMWV
lol.......you crack me up most days:-)
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I gave the lovely one a nice pair of kitchen tongs one year....gift wrapped and all.
The look on her face was priceless.. :cup: :cup: :cup:
I then gave her something more like what she was expecting.
Geoff,
Any chance you got a photo of that look ?
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Geoff,
Any chance you got a photo of that look ?
Unfortunately no photo Mark, but it was a classic moment...... ;D ;D ;D
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I have bought my partner , Glenda , a new full set of dobinson springs and a full set of dobinson mono remote reservoir shocks and a set of boss spring assist air bags. ;D
cheers duggie
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Oh!! You are all so thoughtful!
NOT!!!
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I have bought my partner , Glenda , a new full set of dobinson springs and a full set of dobinson mono remote reservoir shocks and a set of boss spring assist air bags. ;D
cheers duggie
Duggie,
good to see you are one of the thoughtful ones too ;D ;D ;D
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My Fe mentioned as a chance mid year about a perfume she loved & used to have but couldn't get anymore . Come Xmas as she had been wearing my Explore Socks all winter . l felt brave enough to buy her own 3 pack of socks with another box . Opening the socks 1st her look was something between " Thankyou for Caring/lm going to KILL YOU "
the perfume seem better received all around . That was a close 1 for sure :cheers: Timing is everything :laugh:
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Nay-DMAX reckons get your SWMBO a V8 hot lap!
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Nay-DMAX reckons get your SWMBO a V8 hot lap!
She has me so she wants for Nothing , more :cheers: :angel:
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Nay-DMAX reckons get your SWMBO a V8 hot lap!
She has me so she wants for Nothing , more :cheers: :angel:
big difference between sitting on speewa's hot lap and a V8 race car passenger seat?
Although potentially the exhaust system on both similar:-)
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Speewa's hot lap would require 4 shovels full of coal under the chair straight out of the dot painted PDFP :D
Back on topic, you could get he a dot painting?!
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I think I'll get my misses a large box of Panadol to help with the headaches she seems to get at bed time :'(. If women are so good at multi tasking how come the cant have a headache and sex at the same time >:D ;D
They are. But not with their husband
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Thanks Scarps for asking this.
I need help also.
My notable failures have been
1. Back when we had a life before Kids, she was visiting family in France, I showed up out of the blue for surprise vist for christmas at her cousins house. She decided to do a runner to Moroco that day with another cousin. Caught her at the airport on her way out.
2. Got her a massage voucher and nice trimmings in a flash hotel, the massage was pathetic, they massaged her ear lobes apparently.
3. Got her perfume, I checked out the stuff in bath room and replaced what was empty. Didn't like it any more.
It goes down hill a bit more. but last year was the best (worst) as I had no idea at all, I had given up and decided on a coffee table for camping...... I still hear about it now.
So I am getting told very clearly that I must find something .....
All of the great jokes asside, some decent suggestions would help a bloke out. I only need to do it the once the way I see it. Then go back to normal for the next 15 years afterwards.... ;D
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Thanks Scarps for asking this.
I need help also
Well, I'm not here just for my good looks:-)
Apparently flowers is always a winner, as long as it's spontaneous and not because you've done something wrong.
Also gift vouchers for any shoe shop goes down well. Just be prepared for the voucher value. Apparently $50 doesn't buy much. $200 minimum.
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Also gift vouchers for any shoe shop goes down well. Just be prepared for the voucher value. Apparently $50 doesn't buy much. $200 minimum.
She is not interested in fancy shoes, hand bags or jewelery.
Yep.... This 1 is a Keeper. :cup:
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She is not interested in fancy shoes, hand bags or jewelery.
Yep.... This 1 is a Keeper. :cup:
well then it's easy, get her some thongs..... In different colours!
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My swmbo bought her own this year, brought a hand bag home from dfo and said "wrap this for my Xmas present" and then she wanted a ozpig front the bendigo lesuirefest......easy done this year.
Matt
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1 year swmbo was
complaining commenting on the fact that all the presents under the tree for her were very small so No.1 son ( not me I'm not that stupid) went to the supermarket and got an 8 liter container of spring water :cup: and wrapped that up and put under the tree (very very dangerous move) ;D ;D
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The misses and i don't bother buying each other Xmas presents at all, haven't done so for many years now, just buy them for the kids and immediate family members (brothers, sisters and mums and dads). We used to go shopping between Xmas and New Years and buy something big for the house as a combined present to us both, but now the house doesn't really need anything we just don't bother at all with presents for each other.
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My missus still lets me use the MIG welder I gave her one Christmas. She bought me a camper trailer for fathers day this year so I have a Honda generator and trolley for her Xmas present. (And a rather expensive gold bracelet she liked the look of) baz
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l ask , " Find it yourself "
l " Find it yourself " its wrong
lts wrong " l hear about it till the next birthday "
l ask " Find it yourself "
Their seem to be a theme happening here & still lm wrong .
So l give up trying , Yep you guessed it ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,lm wrong .
>:D :cheers:
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I just got mine a fantastic ceiling fan for the camper...she said she'd prefer gold...i said I'd prefer she paid for the fan
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I just got mine a fantastic ceiling fan for the camper...she said she'd prefer gold...i said I'd prefer she paid for the fan
Lol, should of said they only come in white.
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Gee my Mrs is spoilt rotten....look what else she got for xmas(http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/14/12/05/003707498be6a5d9f4de2f259178611c.jpg)
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Ordered her a Oztrail Mitchell king single swag, she is so happy!!!!! and brought myself one as well, now already for
Dargo Pub/Blue rag weekend
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Ordered her a Oztrail Mitchell king single swag, she is so happy!!!!! and brought myself one as well, now already for
Dargo Pub/Blue rag weekend
They are a great swag very roomy & a great nights sleep! We have 3.
Sarah
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Ordered her a Oztrail Mitchell king single swag, she is so happy!!!!! and brought myself one as well, now already for
Dargo Pub/Blue rag weekend
I can only imagine how excited she is!!! You are so thoughtful Peter. :P :P
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Ordered her a Oztrail Mitchell king single swag, she is so happy!!!!! and brought myself one as well, now already for
Dargo Pub/Blue rag weekend
Pete,
That's the same swag our little fella sleeps in........I'm sure you guys will love the swags, I miss just going away with a swag.
Cheers
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Ordered her a Oztrail Mitchell king single swag, she is so happy!!!!! and brought myself one as well, now already for
Dargo Pub/Blue rag weekend
You really put the pressure on us by doing that sort of thing :cup: :cup:
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I got her a 60ltr fridge/freezer and she does not know she is buying me solar kit to keep it running
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You really put the pressure on us by doing that sort of thing :cup: :cup:
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Jamie, did think it was over the top for a xmas present but she is special !!!!
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So it's that time of year again when us guys always struggle to hit the spot with that well thought, researched, valued gift for the better half.
Well seriously, what do you get for a lady when she clearly already has the perfect gift that is witty, charming, romantic, and thoughtful.
Ideas please?
thnx everyone for the thoughts and ideas. Sadly no winner winner chicken dinner as yet, but then for the woman who already has perfection on so many fronts, I knew this was going to be a challenge:-)
She does however keep talking about a new camera, so this may be the solution.
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thnx everyone for the thoughts and ideas. Sadly no winner winner chicken dinner as yet, but then for the woman who already has perfection on so many fronts, I knew this was going to be a challenge:-)
She does however keep talking about a new camera, so this may be the solution.
There you go, give her a "link" to that beautiful comment. ;) ;D
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I think I'll get my misses a large box of Panadol to help with the headaches she seems to get at bed time :'(. If women are so good at multi tasking how come the cant have a headache and sex at the same time >:D ;D
what time shall we need to be in attendance for your Wake Dave? 8)
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I can only imagine how excited she is!!! You are so thoughtful Peter. :P :P
while ordering the swags she came across this :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[ and ordered it
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There you go, give her a "link" to that beautiful comment. ;) ;D
lol.....I was referring to me:-)
swmbo does check in here on ocassion, but she slready knows how special I can be.......
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Guys. I can honestly say I have outdone you all
Wife needed a hysterectomy, so I told her to go intermediate at the hospital and I'd pay the $3000 as her Xmas present
(Nothing serious. Just at that age apparently)
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what time shall we need to be in attendance for your Wake Dave? 8)
Due to sudden illness its been cancelled but since she is single now things may change :-* >:D :cheers:
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Get the camera if I didnt have a good camera I would think that was a great present. Now what to buy lino6??
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Get Mrs scarps a quality poncho, there are some classy ones out there!
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Get the camera if I didnt have a good camera I would think that was a great present. Now what to buy lino6??
Some time off work. ;D
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Some time off work. ;D
I cant give him that his work has to his having a week at xmas and we are having hols in Feb ;D
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Some time off work. ;D
Lift kit for the dmax?
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Guys. I can honestly say I have outdone you all
Wife needed a hysterectomy, so I told her to go intermediate at the hospital and I'd pay the $3000 as her Xmas present
(Nothing serious. Just at that age apparently)
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that's hysterical. Hope it all went well?
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Guys. I can honestly say I have outdone you all
Wife needed a hysterectomy, so I told her to go intermediate at the hospital and I'd pay the $3000 as her Xmas present
(Nothing serious. Just at that age apparently)
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Not sure who is going to hospital after this one !!
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that's hysterical. Hope it all went well?
No worries. And yes she has a pretty good sence of humour
Although she did take the 3 gorillas I offered
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Ironically my wife would also appreciate a hysterectomy for chrissy. . I'm just not sure on the packaging to put under the tree
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Ironically my wife would also appreciate a hysterectomy for chrissy. . I'm just not sure on the packaging to put under the tree
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Ironically my wife would also appreciate a hysterectomy for chrissy. . I'm just not sure on the packaging to put under the tree
Don't think Ipswich General does gift cards
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Don't think Ipswich General does gift cards
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these might work.
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Haha scarps/aussie . The good intent may not be received as intended
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Haha scarps/aussie . The good intent may not be received as intended
McTavish's post could be applicable here then:-)
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Just a word of advice........
Do not mention being speyed!!!!
Just as an aside
Hospitals have a humerious side. The first night, wife spent in intensive care. The second night they had her in a private room.......... But in the Maternity Ward full of crying babies........ Just to remind her what she will be missing out on I reckon.
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wonder if she will get the hint next year and actually,,,, errrrr cook something ---a real ballsy recipe book
http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/NEW-50-Ways-To-Eat-Cock-Healthy-Chicken-Recipes-BOOK-Paperback-softback-/381055681654 (http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/NEW-50-Ways-To-Eat-Cock-Healthy-Chicken-Recipes-BOOK-Paperback-softback-/381055681654)
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Still got nothing. Told her today that unless she gives me some idea of a wanted item or service, I'll have no alternative than to pick something on my own. Previous history would show that hasn't always worked out for the best.
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Go over to Africa and adopt her a new child?
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Still got nothing. Told her today that unless she gives me some idea of a wanted item or service, I'll have no alternative than to pick something on my own. Previous history would show that hasn't always worked out for the best.
Lol, I spent 1 hour walking around shops yesterday. Walked out with nothing. I've got nothing. ;D
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Go over to Africa and adopt her a new child?
lol.......good option thnx
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Lol, I spent 1 hour walking around shops yesterday. Walked out with nothing. I've got nothing. ;D
isn't it just the way. Honestly the pressure on us guys this time of year. Be so easy if she was into fishing or 4wd'ing
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Go over to Africa and adopt her a new child?
then sent the child back, and stay in africa :cup:
isn't it just the way. Honestly the pressure on us guys this time of year. Be so easy if she was into fishing or 4wd'ing
too right :cup:
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Gather up all the junk mail that gets thrown on the lawn at this time of year, give her a roll of sticky tape and scissors and tell her to cut out and stick a wish list together for you ...
Tell her your going out christmas shopping first thing... go to the shops and throw it in the nearest bin, buy a few gift cards at the nearest dress / hair / nails and pamper beauty sallon and a box of chokkies, get it wrapped up at the red cross stand for a gold coin donation.
Then go have a few beers with a couple of mates for the rest of the day . :cup:
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Gather up all the junk mail that gets thrown on the lawn at this time of year, give her a roll of sticky tape and scissors and tell her to cut out and stick a wish list together for you ...
Tell her your going out christmas shopping first thing... go to the shops and throw it in the nearest bin, buy a few gift cards at the nearest dress / hair / nails and pamper beauty sallon and a box of chokkies, get it wrapped up at the red cross stand for a gold coin donation.
Then go have a few beers with a couple of mates for the rest of the day . :cup:
You sir! Are a genius! ;D
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You sir! Are a genius! ;D
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Wife has been on about a mini-iPad. I have the full sized iPad. Went to get a new Samsung phone last week and agreed to an additional $10 a month on the plan and they threw in a mini-Samsung. She won't notice the difference. Problem solved.
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threw in a mini-Samsung. She won't notice the difference. Problem solved.
uh oh, did she specifically ask for a mini iPad?
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uh oh, did she specifically ask for a mini iPad?
Mm this may not end well. Lol
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Mm this may not end well. Lol
She did mention it but for what she will use it for Samsung will do very adequately. Only email and web. She won't even put music on it.
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She did mention it but for what she will use it for Samsung will do very adequately. Only email and web. She won't even put music on it.
lol....maybe grab an apple sticker and put it on the outside:-)
It's like buying a Toyota when what you really wanted was a Nissan.
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Should be able to get a cheap i pad from a costume shop. Look for a pirate costume!
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It's like buying a Toyota when what you really wanted was a Nissan.
Scott, I don't think that has have ever happened mate, no one chooses a Nissan over a Toyota :worthles:
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Scott, I don't think that has have ever happened mate, no one chooses a Nissan over a Toyota :worthles:
lol......knew I'd get a bite from someone. I did:-)
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lol....maybe grab an apple sticker and put it on the outside:-)
It's like buying a Toyota when what you really wanted was a Nissan.
Granny Smith or pink lady apple sticker? Another decision while having :cheers:
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It's like buying a Nissan when what you really wanted was a Toyota.
FIXED for ya Scarps :D
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Granny Smith or pink lady apple sticker? Another decision while having :cheers:
It's like buying a Toyota when what you really wanted was a Jackaroo!
FIXED for ya SJI :D
lol.....you're up early
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lol.....you're up early
Maybe he is using that gel..... ;D
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Lmao
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Maybe he is using that gel..... ;D
Have to get more from you when I drive past tomorrow from Bathurst ;D
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Brought her a swag and today lashed out and brought her "Hema map's" for the ipad
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Brought her a swag and today lashed out and brought her "Hema map's" for the ipad
danger Will Robinson danger danger!!!
It's not enough that you could get told where to go, now you've armed with info to take control. Unless of course you like being submissive, then each to their own.....
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OK if your unsure as to what to get I have worked out how to find out .... yesterday I got up and said to the missus do you want to go shopping of course she jumps at the opportunity, so we go to the shops picks up all this stuff she badly needs and as she get to the register I just shake my head and ask her why on hell would she buy all this stuff just before x-mas how does she know that maybe one or all of our kids have got some of those items as a x-mas gift, she gets all upset and asks me if the kids have got any of the items and I reply why would I tell her what the kids are buying her and give the surprise away. She hands the items back to the checkout attendant says sorry and abuses me.... Now I have an idea what to buy her :) and we went shopping without spending a cent :cheers:
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Gold! :cup: :cheers:
Tim
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OK if your unsure as to what to get I have worked out how to find out .... yesterday I got up and said to the missus do you want to go shopping of course she jumps at the opportunity, so we go to the shops picks up all this stuff she badly needs and as she get to the register I just shake my head and ask her why on hell would she buy all this stuff just before x-mas how does she know that maybe one or all of our kids have got some of those items as a x-mas gift, she gets all upset and asks me if the kids have got any of the items and I reply why would I tell her what the kids are buying her and give the surprise away. She hands the items back to the checkout attendant says sorry and abuses me.... Now I have an idea what to buy her :) and we went shopping without spending a cent :cheers:
Pmsl. :cup:
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Timing is everything & to get to the register only to hand it back :cup: :cup:
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Mine made the comment that it would be good to have a selfie stick?
Where the hell do you get a vibrator on xmas morning????????????
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Mine made the comment that it would be good to have a selfie stick?
Where the hell do you get a vibrator on xmas morning????????????
http://www.sexyland.com.au/ (http://www.sexyland.com.au/)
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Yep O'l whoflung dung we deriver qrickry from BingDong China .... No exra charge in excrete package . ;D
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& a quicky trippy to 711 for the arvo supply of Evereadys >:D >:D :cheers:
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Ok guys how did swmbo like the presents you got them for Xmas >:D
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Ok guys how did swmbo like the presents you got them for Xmas >:D
:cheers:
she's still waiting........it's ok, the camera she wants needs a bit more research and we need to grab it locally for Aus warranty. She still got 8 days of me for Xmas. That was pretty special...............apparently"


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I found a rare book on the history of the area where she grew up.... Not sure on the result as yet....
But
I fitted a new kitchen, ripped out a rear wall and fitted a large sliding door, made wheel chair ramps, new floor coverings, cleaned up the yard and countless trips to the dump all for her mum.
Plus, i drove all the way to country Vic with all my tools and trailer then back (but apparently that don't count as I had 2 days of no nagging).
I think that ort to put me in credit for a while...
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maybe I should have got the 2nd hand mower serviced before giving it to her she has spent the last 2 days trying to start it ;D
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I found a rare book on the history of the area where she grew up.... Not sure on the result as yet....
But
I fitted a new kitchen, ripped out a rear wall and fitted a large sliding door, made wheel chair ramps, new floor coverings, cleaned up the yard and countless trips to the dump all for her mum.
Plus, i drove all the way to country Vic with all my tools and trailer then back (but apparently that don't count as I had 2 days of no nagging).
I think that ort to put me in credit for a while...
Dreaming ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, :cheers:
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maybe I should have got the 2nd hand mower serviced before giving it to her she has spent the last 2 days trying to start it ;D
No Don't Worry , The trying to start it will tier her out so she cant rant at you for long , or as long as usual :cheers:
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She loves the Honda genny I got her. She's still trying to work out what she needs it for.
bazt