Hi Graeme,
Glad your daughter is on the way to recovery.
I own a dog that tries to lick bones back to life, but it would still not leave him unattended with a child. As you said dogs can be unpredictable so why take the chance.
I hope the council agrees to your sensible conditions however they probably would complain that they do not have the resources to monitor them properly (which they probably don't).
Good luck and hopefully your daughter recovers quickly (both physically and emotionally) dogs can be wonderful friends.
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