Hi Ray, my deepest condolences on the loss of your wife, Ally, and yes it is a sh*tty disease. Good to see you doing something so positive at such a time, when most of us would be too occupied with our own grief, to think about others. I lost both my parents, and my best mate to cancer, but can only imagine what you and your family are going through at this time. With the love of family and friends, you will get through this awful time.
Bob