There are quite a number of people on Subaru fora who have over 400,000 kms on their original petrol donks. Specifically the EJ series engines, but others as well. Many of these are well looked after, but used hard.
My '93 Subaru Impreza had around done 236,000 kms when I traded it in. During a 4,500 km roundtrip to Brisbane in 2011, it used no measurable quantity of oil or water and the ambient temperature was around the high thirties to mid forties on most travelling days. My right foot is far heavier than my left
. For much of its life, I drive it like I stole it, as the car was heavy, the engine gutless and the gearing and tune all wrong, I spent a lot of time revving its rings off ... It had an EJ-18 engine (1800 cc), and weighed nearly 1200 Kgs tare. The only engine repair in its life with me was a new water pump at around 210K kms.
Ask someone who has had to replace their diesel particulate filter for around $4000 about the reliability of what I call "consumer diesels" (to distinguish them from things like the 3 cylinder GM diesels in our farm tractors).
It is my understanding that the DPF in modern heavy diesels is separate from the catalytic converter, and is designed to be easily removable and cleaned. With consumer diesels they are part of the catalytic converter, and are a throw away item.